Isaiah 55:8 (KJV)

Isaiah 55:8 (KJV)
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD."

Tuesday, November 11, 2025

Part 2 Theology, Discernment, and the Clash Over Charlie Kirk


Yadah Vrs TTSP

Dissecting My Interaction with  @TheScatteredSheep Podcast

1. How the Exchange Even Started

My first encounter with Anthony Wade of @TheScatteredSheepPodcast (TSSP)—a very small discernment ministry focused on exposing theological compromise—came about when one of his videos popped up in my YouTube recommendations. (along with everything else about Charlie Kirk).  He drew me in with a sharp critique of Troy Black’s false prophecy.  (I had only first heard of Troy Black two days before and I was annoyed by his 'prophecy claims'.)

At first the exchange between myself, Wade, and the other commenters on his video was very lighthearted and supportive—mostly jokes about the ridiculousness of Troy’s prophetic claims. Wade was friendly and even appreciative at first, even if some of my humor seemed to confuse him a bit.



2. Where the Conversation Turned

However, when I tried to point out what I thought Tucker Carlson meant in the memorial speech, a key tension emerged.

  • I treated Tucker’s point as a political analogy about silencing speech (a Gamaliel principle).

  • Wade treated it as if it were a theological exaltation of Charlie Kirk—directly comparing Charlie’s death to the Crucifixion.

He interpreted Carlson’s analogy (and my reference to Gamaliel in Acts 5:34-38) literally, as if we were comparing Charlie Kirk directly to Jesus or Peter.

In short:

I was exploring an analogy.
He was refuting what he thought was a doctrinal statement.

I saw it as a general premise about killers and motives, with no theological equivalence implied.—someone allegedly disliked what Kirk said and acted violently.  I eventually ventured into a nuanced disagreement about the Kirk assassination motive and how religious vs. political identity should be interpreted, which went beyond the video’s original scope. He wasn’t dismissive, but he didn’t engage deeply with the theological or philosophical layers I tried to raise.




3. Early Misalignment Points Between Us

  • Humor vs. Literalism: Early on he enjoyed the playful banter, but as the discussion grew weightier, my sarcasm and analogies increasingly met with his literal, earnest interpretations, creating a tonal gap.

  • Exploratory vs. Declarative: I raised hypothetical and multi-layered questions; he focused on asserting conclusions from public reports.

  • Faith vs. Politics: I questioned the relationship between religious and political motives; he consistently emphasized a political reading of Kirk’s identity and actions.

  • Epistemic Modesty vs. Certainty: I highlighted ambiguity and limits of inference; he spoke with confidence about the likely motives based on reporting.



4. Why I Watched the Second Video

A few politically charged comments—such as referring to Charlie Kirk’s hate as an established fact—made me curious about where Wade was actually coming from. That ultimately shaped my engagement with the second video I picked from his channel, titled:

“NAR Dominionism Teaching – How Carnal Narratives Exploit Tragedy for Political Ends.”

In the second video, I stayed focused on extreme political framing and logical consistency. I noticed a disconnect between criticizing Kirk for conflating politics and Christianity while relying solely on political examples to illustrate the point that Kirk shouldn’t be deified.

Across both videos, my lens remained the same:

  • analyzing how political and religious claims are presented

  • questioning extreme readings

  • tracking logical coherence

Why? Because in the first video, I already saw Wade:

  • interpreting analogies as literal claims

  • stating unproven motives as established fact

  • jumping to theological conclusions where I saw a simpler explanation

So in the second video, my focus naturally shifted toward examining:

  • whether he was again overstating certainty

  • whether he was again mixing political framing with theological claims

  • whether he was again reacting to rhetoric more intensely than the rhetoric required

This time, I wasn’t evaluating the topic — I was monitoring the pattern.

At this point, the disagreement was no longer about Charlie Kirk at all — it was about how discernment itself should function.


5.  Key Takeaways from the Exchange with Wade @TheScatteredSheep Podcast

1. Wade's method seemingly undercuts his own Standards for Christians and the Church
Observation:
When someone claims to be doing theological correction, or "Discernment ministry," but uses political material as their primary evidence, they inevitably muddle the message. The form contradicts the content. If Wade wants that to be persuasive, grounding critiques in theological/scriptural argument rather than primarily political examples would be more consistent with that framing.

Why it stood out to me:
This was my first exposure to Wade.  His channel (TSSP) surfaced via algorithm because he was responding to the controversies around Charlie Kirk’s murder. That context amplified the inconsistency: he was reacting to cultural/political events, but critiquing CK for allowing the same kind of entanglement.

Why it matters:
Wade strongly critiques Christians who allow their politics to shape their religion rather than letting theology shape their politics. So in this specific instance, when he critiques CK by using the same politically charged quotes commonly used by CK’s political opponents, his argument becomes less distinct, less theological, and less consistent with his own standards.

Effect:
By using politically charged examples to demonstrate CK’s failings, Wade blurs his own theological framing. His point might still be valid, but the rhetorical method makes his theological critique less clear — and that’s where my “quiet” insight came through.

Lesson:
If a channel presents itself as a discernment ministry, critiques of Christian figures land more consistently and persuasively when they’re grounded in Biblical/theological reasoning rather than political evidence.


Result of the Exchange:

✅ I believe my point did come through subtly in my original exchange with Wade.
✅ I hinted at it without accusing him.
✅ He did not reject my final framing, but stated why he spoke about Charlie Kirk in the first place: "The Church is actively deifying CK."


2. Wade interprets divergence as off-topic and collapses disagreement into NAR influence
Observation:
In the video itself Wade talks about his talk with a friend and claims he had been corrupted by NAR influence without knowing it. During the exchange with me, Wade steered the conversation back to his intended focus — protecting the Church from theological error. He often treated any attempts to nuance or question his framing as a digression. Points I raised about context, political framing, or extremes in reactions to CK were often interpreted as evidence of NAR (New Apostolic Reformation) influence rather than addressed directly.

Lesson:
A speaker who frames deviations as “off-topic” and collapses nuanced disagreements into a broad category like NAR influence can subtly control the conversation and limit scrutiny of their own logic. Recognizing this dynamic allows a respondent to maintain clarity in their reasoning without being pulled into the imposed framing.


3. Using politically loaded examples guarantees political interpretation — even if the speaker insists otherwise
Observation:
Throughout the exchange, Wade relied on politically charged examples to illustrate CK’s failings, such as CK’s statements about DEI initiatives, racial quotas, and pilots. These examples naturally provoke strong emotional reactions from observers, making it difficult to isolate the theological critique from the political outrage.

If Wade truly wanted a message about the church, he could have stuck with:

  • Biblical examples — such as warning against idolatry, misplacing loyalty, or valuing reputation over character.

  • Historical Christian distortions — pointing to past cases where political entanglement led the Church astray.

  • Pastoral warnings — discussing how leaders should model discernment rather than focus on cultural battles.

  • Intra-church patterns of hero-worship — highlighting where church figures were elevated for political rather than theological reasons.

Type of discussion that highlighted the disconnect:
I was trying to discuss CK’s comments in context, emphasizing intention, societal reaction, and moral nuance. Wade repeatedly pivoted back to examples of political controversies, effectively interpreting my questions about context and nuance as deviations or evidence of corruption.

Lesson:
Using politically charged material as primary evidence for theological correction will inevitably trigger defensive reactions. A clearer distinction between theological critique and political commentary would help maintain focus on the stated mission.


4. Wade inadvertently reproduced the dynamic he condemns
Observation:
He implied CK’s followers “deify” him when they defend him or nuance his comments. But:

  • Wade used highly charged political material → which predictably provoked defensive reactions → which he then would likely interpret as “deification.”

  • Wade’s critique of CK depends on imputing CK’s intent while dismissing how people might read CK’s intent.

    • “He says these things because his politics inform his faith.”

    • “He knew he was lying when he said that.”

    • “He was either racist or pandering to his audience who are largely racists.”

  • Wade rejects the idea that his own highly political framing might shape how people interpret his motives.

Lesson:
If you create the conditions that produce the behavior you condemn, that’s not insight — that’s circular logic. If intent matters for moral evaluation, it matters for everyone, not just the person being criticized.

Result of the Exchange:
I believe my responses indirectly highlighted that asymmetry.


5. A more consistent form of critique was available to him — and he didn’t take it
Observation:
Had Wade framed the issue Biblically:

  • Idolatry

  • Misplaced loyalty

  • Prophetic correction

  • Discernment

  • Speech ethics

  • Shepherding responsibilities

…then his point would have been stronger, more consistent, and unassailable on the grounds I pointed out.

Lesson:
If your stated aim is theological correction, choose theological tools — not political ones. This aligns tightly with my sense of “he could have said this better and without triggering political interpretations.”


6. My approach highlighted the asymmetry without escalating
Observation:
Where Wade foregrounded political examples and imposed broad interpretive categories (e.g., NAR influence) to frame CK’s actions, I focused on context, nuance, and intent — applying interpretive generosity, avoiding absolutes, and keeping the discussion grounded in logic rather than loaded rhetoric.

Lesson:
A careful, context-aware approach can reveal asymmetries in someone else’s critique, highlighting where methodology undercuts stated principles, without escalating conflict. Choosing interpretive clarity over rhetorical provocation allows the underlying argument — or its inconsistencies — to surface naturally.

Effect:
This method ensured that even subtle observations about framing, intent, and double standards landed without triggering defensiveness, allowing the conversation to end with mutual acknowledgment rather than escalation.


7. MY message conveyed all of this — quietly, without sounding combative
Observation:
My actual replies had a tone of:

  • “I understand your stated purpose…”

  • “…but I’m not sure your method achieved it.”

  • “Because the examples you chose came from a different rhetorical world.”

Result of the Exchange:
I did communicate the hypocrisy/contradiction — but in a way that allowed Wade to remain non-defensive. That’s why he responded well in the end.


6. Navigating the Underlying Discernment Issue

When one person approaches an issue through an impact-first moral framework and the other approaches it through an interpretation-first framework (intent + context + linguistic precision) — discussions risk semantic drift and unproductive conflict. Understanding why this drift happens matters: different frameworks answer different epistemic questions: One asks, “What harm did this cause?” The other asks, “What did the speaker mean, and how can we know?” Without recognizing that difference, even good-faith discussions can slide into confusion.

Strategically, framing subtle critiques through context, intent, and interpretive generosity allows a respondent to reveal inconsistencies and methodological asymmetries without provoking defensiveness. In contrast, relying on overtly political or emotionally charged examples will predictably trigger resistance and obscure the core argument.




This entire exchange raised an unavoidable question: if Wade was so confident that Charlie Kirk’s statements were racist or pandering to racists, do we actually have enough evidence to make that claim? That question deserves its own treatment. The next post addresses it directly.

Friday, November 7, 2025

In the Aftermath: Sorting Out the Labels Before Sorting Out the Man — Principles Before Opinions


In the Aftermath of a Most Troubled Event:
Wherein I Consider the Noise and Tumult Raised Concerning One Charlie Kirk,
and Examine the Many Rash Accusations Employed Without Measure in Our Present Age,
Together with the Curious Celebrations Both to Denigrate and to Honor;
With Some Reflections on How a Christian Ought to Discern Speech, Motives, and the Labels Men Cast Upon One Another


Charlie Kirk was a polarizing political influencer killed in Orem UT Sept 10 2025. In the immediate aftermath there was all sorts of controversy in the YouTube algorithm regarding what actually happened.  Many expressed concerns that certain aspects did not seem to make sense between what they witnessed happen on live stream and the story we all have been told afterwards. Like other high profile assassinations, theories of conspiracies abound, and will likely continue to abound. According to the official story and Indictment one man acted alone of course, and he allegedly admitted to his parents and lover that he murdered Charlie Kirk because he believed Charlie spread too much hate.

There were also hundreds if not thousands of people making posts online, either blatantly celebrating, because they too believed Charlie Kirk to be a hateful or racist person, or at the very least, implying he got what he deserved for the kind of things he said.  The most common example of his racism, that I saw, was what he said about worrying black pilots might not be qualified because of a United Airlines policy statement, requiring 50 percent of the training class be "women or people of color".

On the other hand Charlie Kirk was given a huge memorial with thousands in attendance. Part worship service part Republican political rally. He was given the medal of Freedom by President Donald J. Trump. DJT named Kirk's Birthday as a National Day of Remembrance. Some that don't want to celebrate Charlie Kirk, changed it to George Floyd Remembrance day, because strangely these two high profile figures shared the same birthday. Charlie Kirk obviously an influential person on the American political right, and George Floyd, because of the incident surrounding his death, became a icon for the left and movements such as "Black Lives Matter".
 

By some Charlie Kirk is considered a martyr. The question about whether he was a martyr or not depends on how one defines the term martyr *(and how one defines beliefs and bravery). In modern American uses of the term, martyr basically signifies anyone killed or injured that are also considered brave or heroic for sticking to their beliefs or cause despite the obvious danger. Assuming he believed what he was saying and would say these things despite the danger, perhaps the broad definition applies if the bulk of what he was saying was noble. 
The meaning of the word martyr in Christianity, since the end of the first century meant someone who willingly suffers even to the point of death rather then renouncing their faith in Jesus Christ. The word, martyr, comes from the Greek (martus) meaning 'a witness.' Originally it just carried the sense of someone willing to testify to something they have first hand knowledge of.  In this strictly Christian sense, it doesn't appear that Charlie was directly hated or killed for what he said about Jesus Christ but what he said or believed about other things.  Although his Christian beliefs may have informed his other beliefs, or his other beliefs may have informed his Christian beliefs, either way it doesn't necessarily mean he was directly killed for his Christian beliefs.

Others like ShoeOnHead just saw Charlie Kirk as a guy that said stuff, and the fact that he was killed and people celebrated really Sucks. ShoeOnHead disagreed with things he said but believed the extreme accusations are unwarranted.  This is also my basic view as well.   Of course it should also go without saying but obviously it doesn't, the extreme action of murder for disagreeing with someone is tragic!

I didn't know that much about Charlie Kirk before his murder. I caught a few of his video clips of discussions with college students, a year ago, such as this one with Vivek Ramaswamy or the one on Jubilee I didn't know anything about his organization or various_non profits he started. I knew he supported Trump and was critical of left wing policies. I didn't know how often he talked about his faith, nor anything about his specific theological positions within Christianity. I also didn't know anything about the specific controversies or backlash he had received for things that he had said. Except to the point I have seen "everyone and their mother" called names like racist (or more recently Nazi or fascist) for seemingly anything and everything. I've been amazed, confounded, and written about this for years. This is why I could totally relate when ShoeOnHead shared the list she has been keeping over the past couple years about all the things she has been called conceptually similar names for (fascist, Nazi, reactionary)

I admit I have sadly become apathetic when people call others racist. Do to extreme over use and exaggerations, I feel like I used to care but now it feels like the boy who cried wolf scenario. (Aesop fable)-Boy Who Cried Wolf)  Charlie Kirk could have been hateful or racist or just pandering to his base that are mostly racist... It could be, but I'm not buying it! Many believe certain words are racist in and of themselves and no context could ever excuse them.  I agree that context might not excuse, although it might shed valuable light into whether or not a person was being deliberately hateful or a provocateur.  In general I think it is unwise to 'quote mine' in order to make sweeping claims about another persons character. This is especially true if one claims to be a Christian. I think it does matter what someone actually meant more then what they actually said. It could be they said a bad or incorrect thing in a bad way.  It doesn't make them hateful automatically.

In a way Charlie himself admitted that the kind of thoughts he would have regarding black pilots were dirty, sinful thoughts.  
On Megyn Kelly he explained the comment in the following way:

I want to just reiterate the essence of that clip that was missed by almost everybody Jordan Peterson to his credit really picked up on it which is what I was trying to be you know very vulnerable at the audience is that DEI invites unwholesome thinking and I said I don't and I was saying in the clip that's not who I am that's not what I believe but what it does is it makes us worse version of ourselves Megan that's the whole point of what I was saying is that I now look at everything through a hyper racialized diversity quota lens because of their massive insistence to try to hit these ridiculous racial hiring quotas of course I believe anybody of any skin color can become a qualified pilot that is never been my contention I mean it's silly it's bigoted to think otherwise... I just I want to make sure this is clear because the the the the deeper Point even got cut off in that clip and that's fine is that DEI creates like bad people and that's we walk around asking questions that we otherwise wouldn't ask and I happen to say the quiet part out loud because I don't like thinking that way I feel dirty I feel like sinful I feel that I'm now asking questions I wouldn't otherwise ask but they've invited this entire conversation and by the way I just want to make this clear because then some people say but Charlie they're totally qualified hold on every analysis that we have of similar quota based affirmative action programs always results in the lowering of Standards

The "bad people" he spoke about was himself in this scenario.  I don't know if his claim is correct regarding the results of these policies. I would need way more evidence such a policy is good for me to believe what he said was evil. I don't think it is intellectually honest to insist his words were so terrible and should be condemned totally while also maintaining context doesn't matter. I do know people such as Thomas Sowell has been saying the same thing for years before Charlie Kirk was born.  Charlie Kirk greatly respected Sowell and used and recommended his work.   Clearly, if black people can share the same opinion on these types of policies, there could be more to it then someone simply being hateful or racist.  I heard there once was a dream about people being judged by "the content of Character" not the "color of skin". This seems difficult if not impossible to achieve if there are mandatory skin color requirements. I don't think Charlie Kirk was a Nazi and I don't think he was actually hateful but as with anything I could be wrong-

In a follow-up post I will give a break down of my interaction with a "discernment ministry" and our clash over Charlie Kirk.

Sunday, November 2, 2025

When “Identity” Became Synonymous With “Trans”:

  A Misreading That Reveals a Bigger Linguistic (and Cultural) Shift 

While watching a YouTube critique of a message purported to be directly from God about who killed Charlie Kirk, it caught my attention immediately when the reviewer automatically interpreted the word identity in the original speaker’s sentence as referring only to trans‑identity. The original line was simply,

“I love him and those like him who are going through similar struggles with their identity.”

Clearly not the main point of the critique, and  although I agree with the overall criticism or "take-down" of the original video’s claims, the reviewer was wrong to assume that identity automatically equals trans. I admit the possibility that Troy, in his fake prophecy regarding who killed Charlie Kirk, was probably conflating the accused and his alleged trans lover, but he didn't claim the killer was trans.  Troy said the killer struggled with his identity. This is known as semantic narrowing, and in this particular case is indicative of a culture war that has been brewing for the past fifteen years or so.  

There are a myriad of ways one could struggle with identity, that doesn't mean trans. If the official story is true, the shooter was potentially a gay kid in Mormon Utah. Identity refers to the overall sense of self, not specifically gender identity.  Reports say the accused is dating a trans furry woman in Utah! His roommate is supposedly his lover, in other words. They could be married for all I know. 
Is the accused killer gay or is he straight? Is his lover a boy or a girl? Is a trans girl a real girl?  I would be more interested in knowing how he defines hate?  Nevertheless, maybe he struggled with how he saw himself so he became an assassin. 

Identity quote graphic: Identity refers to the overall sense of self, not specifically gender identity"

Why the Misreading Matters

  • Clarity of communication – When identity is automatically read  or heard as trans, speakers who mean 'personal struggles,'  'cultural background,' or 'professional role' risk being misunderstood.
  • Polarization – The shortcut can turn a neutral statement into a flashpoint, especially in comment sections where nuance is scarce.
  • Erasure of other identities – Reducing the term to one facet marginalizes the many ways people experience and define themselves.

It's Anecdotal but... 

Nobody in the whole wide world thought identity meant trans thirty years ago. Look how far we've come. Not only were trans not a threat when I was in high school, the concept didn't even exist in our psyche. We certainly didn't have furry.  An identity crisis didn't mean unsure about gender or sex or species .  Imagine that! 

I never saw any trans being bullied because I never knew it was a thing. Sure SNL made fun of people that were confused about Pat's gender, Pat didn't seem to mind. Sure Hollywood thought black men pretending to be women was funny, but the men didn't think they were women. Or a father pretending to be an old woman housekeeper to be with his kids after a divorce. (I think the point was "love will prevail" or something not "respect men that feel like old housekeepers"—Even if you catch them peeing standing up). Just didn't seem to be a big problem. 

 If I saw a man pretending to be a woman go into a female bathroom, I might worry he might be a threat. But they would probably be fine if they just never do anything creepy. If they use the toilet and leave no one would ever know. I promise you I have never once examined any dude in a bathroom and found them wanting, so to speak. Put a 1 in the comments if you have, The 1's are the ones I will hopefully avoid! 

My whole damn life, everyone seemed to know their own gender and everyone else seemed to believe them. Sure kids made fun of each other for their clothes or having unpopular hobbies.  Perhaps even about being stupid, smelly, short, ugly...Stuff like that. I don't remember a single time a kid was upset for being misgendered. Being misgendered was when a kid thought a guy was a girl because their hair was too long or something stereo-typically girl like or vice versa, Then they would apologize. 
It wasn't about calling out the fakes after them demanding we respect that they tell us they are fakes all the time. 

 As far as I actually know 90% of every kid I actually knew were actually the opposite sex from what I thought they were, They must have been good at pretending. We didn't have a word like trans — so we would know that it is fake while having to pretend it is real.  
 We also didn't have men in girl sports because we didn't have girl sports. We had girls in sports, and they sucked, but we put up with it.  They didn't seem to know they sucked, or they were having fun and didn't care. No I am just kidding there was softball­ —boys didn't play that.

Saturday, August 9, 2025

The Day I Stopped Mistaking Confusion for Connection

When Reconnection Feels More Like a Riddle Than a Reunion


“Walk a mile in another one’s shoes… or pretend to on ChatGPT.”

Friday, September 13, 2019

Straight Pride- Straight Up Satire

A Straight Pride Parade held in Boston on August 31st, 2019 by an promotion calling itself Super Happy Fun America sparked controversy and protests. The most semi-coherent and widely spouted argument against the event is that straight people are not marginalized or oppressed so they "do not need a parade". I do not know when it became necessary to be oppressed to celebrate anything or have a parade. I know very little about the promotion or what is really in the founders hearts and minds but I would easily concede it could meet the definition of a "troll" event, in the online vernacular. More importantly and to the point though, it is clearly satirical.
Satire- trenchant wit, irony or sarcasm used to expose and discredit vice or folly. (Merriam-Webster)
One may argue it is mean to make light of the struggle certain people have experienced for being abnormal, which is a completely reasonable response. However, I think the "folly" this event exposes is the completely unreasonable response it actually receives.  First we have a president of a college, Lee Pelton, Calling it "a perversion". Is the irony lost?  What is it "perverting"?  The meaning and purpose of a parade?  Free Speech?  Clearly it is not perverting the design and purpose for sex.  In order to argue against people celebrating something so mundane in fact, people seem to have to impute the motive of hate to everyone involved.  I saw several live-streams where protestors take to calling everyone there for the parade a "Nazi", even people just there to report.  Then they start chanting, "Hate speech is not free speech", and "Boston hates you." All this in the name of "tolerance and diversity".    There is no shortage of clear examples of this complete and utter "folly" in America and the rest of the world today.  Speech is Speech .  Expression is Expression. There is good reason these should remain free.

Tuesday, November 1, 2016

My Boss Called ME Fat!

He’s not actually my “boss” per se, he is the owner of the company I work for and I rarely ever see him.  And truth be told, he did not really just call me fat.  He asked me if I was putting on weight.  He said I looked forty pounds heavier then the last time he saw me.  He told me I was too young to be putting on that kind of weight, and that it was not good.  He asked me what is going on.  He did not care if I was offended, he may have even been genuinely concerned for me but it was blunt and matter of fact.
I, of course knew already, I needed to make a change.  The year before I made a new years resolution to not buy anything out of the vending machines at work for a year.  Before that I was buying at least a twenty once soda every day.  I had made that goal but I would still go out to eat and binge on sweet carbonated beverages at least two or three days a week.  Just after the new year, exercise and diet came up in a sermon.  The speaker specifically hit on how he had to give up pop.  I was already feeling bad because I could not physically keep up with my nephew at all anymore.  I was also embarrassed that I drank more pop then the kids.  The weekend before this conversation I joined a site called exercise friends, I also had a dream in which I was ashamed and lying about how much more I was eating then everyone else.  But this was the final straw.  I bought a scale went on a calorie restrictive diet, quit drinking pop, and started exercising every day.  I do not really consider this particular incident love but as much as I hate to admit it, his blunt question and comment was ultimately helpful to me.

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

A Lesson in Brutal Honesty From the World of MMA

Another one for the “tough love” category for sure.  The above video is a sensationalized edited* version of a conversation that took place at Joe Rogan’s studio for  The Fighter and the Kid podcast.  In essence it is Joe telling his friend Brendan Schaub, a mixed martial artist in the UFC heavy-weight division, that he does not think he should keep fighting.  He tells him he is not good enough to become a champion and the risk is no longer worth it.  This was recorded two days after Brendan’s loss to Travis Browne at UFC 181.  The reason I re-post it here is not really to speak to the point of whether or not Joe’s specific points are correct but because it is an example of someone speaking a hard message to a friend out of love.  A lot of people criticize not that Joe spoke his heart so to speak, but that he did it in a public setting.  In a follow-up recording about how he felt about delivering such a message to his friend, Joe Rogan actually said he would probably agree.   (Joe Rogan explains Brendan Schaub comments)  Brendan also talks in a follow-up recording about what was going on with him while this was happening and immediately following.  (Brendan Schaub responds to Joe Rogan) He deserves respect for listening to what Rogan had to say whether he takes the advise or not.  Since this was streamed live as it was being recorded he was receiving advise via texts from friends and family to not take it and to leave.  It shows a great deal of emotional intelligence for him to be willing to sit through what would feel like a brutal beating of a different kind. 
I believe we all need friends willing to do this but we most often avoid it.  What experiences have you had in either receiving or giving a brutally honest message to someone you love?
*Click here for the Full Version of the Podcast